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Cheetos vs. Carrots: (Not) Fighting to Feed Kids Healthy Food
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Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Rachel Lincoln Sarnoff, Mommy Greenest:
My kids are sick of healthy lunches. They don’t want organic soybean butter and Farmer’s Market fig jam sandwiches, they want Lunchables: crackers, processed cheese, salty disks that pass for lunch meat and a whole lot of chemicals wrapped up in a plastic box. My son just confessed he’s been dumping his organic carrot snacks in the trash (and I thought the ranch dip was decadent). My daughter’s been trading her edamame for Twinkies. Forget the organic veggie chips I carefully stowed in wax paper bags—heaven for these children would be to open up their lunch boxes and spy a bright-orange bag of Flamin’ Hot Cheetos.
If you haven’t been following the Cheetos controversy, last year’s NPR exposé found the snack has addictive properties that I’m theorizing might be caused by an excess of red dye number five. Every time Angelina Jolie takes her brood out for a walk, the paparazzi snaps them snacking on the deep-fried, day-glo crunchies. And the cheetah-emblazoned bag has elevated elementary-school pariahs to the status of homecoming kings—as long as they have trading privileges.
Now I’m no stranger to junk food. After enduring years of brown-bag lunches with an oversized, barely washed carrot from my father’s vegetable garden peeking out of the top as evidence of my snack, I spent many years of rebellion indulging in a plethora of processed foods. But the organic apple doesn’t fall far from the tree: I always felt better when I was eating healthy foods, like those I’d grown up with.
In the hopes that I’d similarly indoctrinate my own children, I introduced healthy eating habits early. As toddlers, my kids ate everything from seaweed to asparagus. I followed the five rules to a tee:
1. Have regular family meals.
2. Serve a variety of healthy foods and snacks.
3. Be a role model by eating healthy yourself.
4. Avoid battles over food.
5. Involve kids in the process.
We eat a family meal at least five nights a week. A big bowl of organic fruit sits on the counter. Most weekends, I take them to the Farmer’s Market. At the supermarket, we hold discussions in the processed food aisle about how my job as a parent is to protect them from harm—including chemicals.
But guess what? At 10 and seven, two out of my three children exist on a diet of pasta, pizza, chicken nuggets and the occasional hamburger. Occasionally, in the 15 minutes between theater class, skateboarding lessons and thrice-weekly baseball practice we even hit the McDonald’s drive-thru.
They gotta eat, right?
The point is, I do my best. The pasta is organic whole wheat, the pizza is homemade, the chicken nuggets are actually soy and hamburgers at home are free range and organic. All meals are augmented by a daily serving of green vegetables, and in-between snacks involve a whole lot of organic string cheese. My son has an aversion to fruit (hence, the string cheese), but both my daughters nibble on what’s in season.
Sometimes, I even let them have Cheetos. (But never in their lunch boxes.)
And, in keeping with rule number four, I try not to argue with them about food. I encourage, yes. I cajole, absolutely. And I definitely set a good example. As a result, I hope one day my kids and I will sit down to a meal of freshly prepared foods that they don’t recognize—and they’ll take a bite, without question. I may have to wait until they’re 25, but I do believe it can happen.
Hey, a mom can dream, can’t she?
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Posted by Jodi on 08/14/2010 at 04:48 PM
I feel the same! My son sees the junks all his classmates have at school too. I explain shy he doesn’t get it but do allow for compromise! Teaching them young is the best!!
Thanks
Posted by Dr. Jeri on 08/05/2010 at 07:08 PM
I am a working (outside of the home) mom of a 10 year old, 8 year old and two year old. They have NEVER eaten at McDonalds. McDonalds food is loaded with chemicals and as a corporation, is no where near “green.” If a person makes a commitment not to eat there, it is absolutely possible. It is hard for me to take seriously someone that buys organic, cares about the environment but eats at McDonalds or the like. Consistency is very important to convince both children and adults the importance of healthy eating.
Posted by momwith3 on 08/05/2010 at 03:16 PM
Cheetos have MSG which causes Excitotoxicity. Look that up and you will see you are killing your brain cells. This also causes addiction and overeating leading to obesity. These excitotoxins are found in many foods under hidden names and is one of the reasons for our ill health. MSG can be hidden in food under the guise of “natural flavors” and about 150 other names.
Posted by Jenine Wright on 08/05/2010 at 03:01 PM
This is a great article. I too do whatever it takes to build that foundation and fortunately I have not cross the bridge of having too much outside influence as my children are 3 and 5. I spend my days researching and educating people on the importance of ingredients in food and how it can affect our health in a number of ways. I do not however compromise, if they see something I tell them we can get it with good ingredients but anything with artificial ingredients is harmful to their bodies and they actually get that right now… when people ask me why they just cant have it once, I say whats the difference in letting them having 1 cigarette, would you let your children do that because it wouldnt kill them to have 1? If you compromise your integrity why should they think that they need to always have the good stuff?? At the same time I don’t ever deprive them, they want cheese curls they get the all natural ones, I dont even think they would like the cheetos :-) at this point they would taste fake. I will hold on to this for as long as I can :-)
Posted by Jessica on 07/15/2010 at 05:07 AM
It’s such a tough job to do… I totally hear you. Before kids I was a raw vegan—organic everything. With kids it’s safe to say things have changed for me - I’m lucky to get a meal in between all of our activities. It can be tough to prepare healthy, quick meals for the little monsters. Good to hear someone getting honest about what it takes.
Posted by Rebecca on 07/14/2010 at 07:32 PM
Of course carrots, but why do Cheetos have to be so good?
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Posted by Crusher on 08/16/2010 at 12:47 PM
McDonald’s is the world’s worst. The treat their ‘meat’ stock like a sack of potatoes. They add hormones and antibiotics to all of that crap. I find it very disturbing that you would bring your children there, If you care at all about them, go to the PETA website, watch the video and then tell me you are still going to support that terrible place, or any fast food place. Your children will become addicted just like the rest of the American’s who are completely oblivious as to where their food comes from, as long as it’s cheap. ignorance is bliss I guess but you aren’t doing anyone in your family any good by going there. For a treat?!!! A nice big treatment of CANCER.